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Veneration of the Dark Godis is Veneration of the Whole Wombn. Our Power is in Darkness, but first wo-men have to leave our patriarchal conditioning behind - leave the father's house and his rules! Embrace the Way of the Womb!

Mama Lessons: Head vs Heart

6/22/2016

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My husband grew up watching his mother struggle. He watched his father be insufficient. He watched his brother cry himself to sleep at night because he was hungry. It stuck with him. It made him the man he is today. He survived his childhood, his mother's foolish breeding choices and got to work.

He then put a plan in action to always be bringing in more money for his family. The wonderful thing is, even if we should part? He will continue to care for me, protect me and provide for me. I do as I please in this marriage, he still supports me and invests in me. He only asks that I not prevent him from providing for me and protecting me, no matter what happens. This is what a real masculine does. I never saw this level of investment or protection before in my life. The level of devotion.... I put him to the test. In the most ugly of ways. Still, he remains committed to being The Masculine Devotee of THIS Godis.

Admittedly? I grew up with yellow lunch slips. I grew up without enough food or clothes. I grew up with the struggle of an idiotic black mother who ALLOWED herself to be impregnated by a dysfunctional nothing ass black male, 4 times. Not only did she allow this She sought it out. He never had a choice. She told us this herself. She told me "you all were my choice! Your father never had a say."

I go in on bottom bytches because I was raised by one lol. I know exactly how you foolish women think. Keep this in mind when you try to tell me sob stories about your idiotic decisions with men. I've no empathy for you.

When I met my husband? I didn't know how to be taken care of. I didn't know how to get out of a man's way doing what he should do. I didn't know how to allow him to cherish and provide for me. I felt like I was going crazy. I really did, it was a crisis of identity. The wo-man my mother raise me to be vs the Godis I Am.
Mama lessons told me "don't ever rely on a man" because mama bred with addict peen. She didn't have to. She chose it, she had a proposal from a man who worked and owned land. She turned him down and bred my daddy sperm. I could have been borne to a Black Masculine who owned land and boats too.
Mama chose the drunkard who smoked crack and barely took care of his 6 children by his at the time wife. Mama Lessons nearly destroyed my life.

I had to invest in a different way of thinking and living. That wasn't easy either suga. It has taken many classes, personal development, mentorship and more. You won't get out of this just reading books. I keep telling you all that and women keep balking lol. Practical application has to happen.

In my class, Mama Lessons I will be discussing some crucial life lessons. How to win, despite your mamas lessons and teachings and how to ditch the negative programming you learned or picked up from your mother. This is a 3 module class covering 3 different areas we need to address for freedom and healing.
Sign up here: www.angrydevas.com/mama-lessons.html
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Breeding in Captivity: Daughter's aid and Help is not a Replacement for Male Duties to the Family

11/3/2014

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One thing elder bw DID teach me:

If u have babies; you are all by yourself even married.  Its what i saw all around me. I also was told this on several occasions. Most of which were replies to my bitching about being expected to babysit for free lmfao

Married women who were single mommies. Women in relationships with men who were single mommies. Wouldn't be so bad if they had nannies. But the black community doesn't need nannies when the eldest daughter can be leaned on to help mama cope with her poor decision to breed with low caste maledom. Hence the phrase "women raise their daughters and love their sons." Most often? She simply raises her daughters to be her replacement workforce. They exist, simply, to make her life easier as a domestic slave and broodmare for her "husband" aka herder.

YES, I called it out! Black women get their daughters to aid them in making the load of their poor decision making, lighter. Its sad and needs to stop. This is exactly what was done to me, so this is actually my "realm of experience" to discuss. (directed at the cattle who try to silence.)


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Yes, via husbandry men have turned us all into cows. Some of we Cows have been Branded and Bred, but all of us have been Poked. Male Sexual Terrorism ensures it.
It is not on your eldest child to help u care for the fruit of your sexual pleasure!  Don't breed till u can afford a nanny. Or be God enough to do it alone. We need competency tests prior to breeding. Like u need a license to possess and operate ur car... Good credit to be qualified for a home. Good work ethic to keep ya job?

You should have to pass a breeders examination for mental spiritual financial and emotional fitness. But then.... There would be no slave class to do the menial labor for the big wigs.  It is a systemic pandemic. And the beat goes on. 

Our choice to mother deserves more than this. So much more. Hence why i got's none... zero children. Its a HUGE job! And not one u can quit or transfer! It is a thankless job, that requires a ton of self sacrifice.

It saddens me, to hear women discuss the unfairness of 4 legged animals in zoos. Yet watch them flat out refuse to see how we are all in the Zoo, and women are nothing more than Cattle in this realm. 
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Breeding in Captivity: Why does the black-COMMUNITY Privilege baby mamas over Childfree Sovereign Wombn.

11/2/2014

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The Angry Devas 6 Statements of the 
Dark Mother

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Jai Kali Ma!

6 is the Sacred Number of the Mother. The 666 "mark of the beast" is the Code of our Dark Mother the Divine Dark femin9. As that Triple Dark 6 when added becomes the Divine Dark 9.


1 The Dark Mother represents wise conscious indulgence, instead of subconscious fearful abstinence!
2 The Dark Mother represents a life dedicated to ones own vital existence, instead of one filled with concern for the spiritual and emotional pipe dreams of self and others!
3 The Dark Mother represents Undefiled Wisdom and Dark Gnosis in application to oneself, instead of hypocritical self‐deceit and repetitive negative self-aggrandizement!
4 The Dark Mother represents kindness to those who are deserving by display of their reciprocity, instead of love wasted on ingrates thieves and losers!
5 The Dark Mother represents Restitution and Compensation in vengeance, instead of turning the other cheek and hoping they "get theirs!"
6 The Dark Mother represents the abundant extension of responsibility to the responsible, instead of over concern for lazy shiftless psychic/emotional/financial vampires!


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Baby mamas often have more privileges afforded to them than Women who were smart enough not to breed. I remember being a junior in high school and Massachusetts had this program where welfare mothers got free cars if they jumped through this or that hoop. I remember saying "here i am. Smarter than these baby mamas, more savvy, greater intelligence. I am in college, i didnt throw my life away on the fuck games men play. But these women get cars for being foolish whores and i have to figure it all out myself. Why do we reward the most lazy, shiftless, undeserving wenches? And leave the Smart women to languish." 18 year old Deva was a real tough cookie. Ouch.

Flash forward a year later, i am working full time and going to school. Because my baby mama sister was allowed to stay home and raise her child. And i HAD to leave the home and work to get to school. No financial support to the daughter who actually was doing something more than being a black mans hump rag. I couldnt even get my mother to sign the damn FAFSA. Which i needed since i was still under the age of federal majority. The Federal requirements to qualify for being an Independent Student Back in 2006 were:

  • You are over the age of 24
  • You are married
  • You have a child of your own
  • You are a ward of the state or orphaned.

Otherwise? You need your parents to submit their information and your financial aid award is based on their financial accomplishments. my mother bred with a bum bastard addict so, there was no one but her to turn to for help or with needs like this one. My mother REFUSED to submit simple tax information for my FAFSA. Now we arent talking about co-signing loans or anything big, just tax ID info. She refused to simply hand me the info to plug in myself! I was willing to do the data entry, she wasnt willing to grant me access to college. But she was willing to play grandma-baby-daddy and housed my baby mama sister, helped that fool with paying for everything for my niece. which meant i had to apply for private loans to go to college, anyone who did time in the "higher education system" knows these loans are more risky and cost higher in interest etc.

My mother grew up in a community of black women that devalued black womanhood outside of its capacity to be a broodmare; then abandoned those women when they accepted/succumbed to their predestined fate. Black womanhood isnt allowed to be ambitious and savvy until after she has busted out 2+ children. Then we say "yeah girl! Go on to school! Get yo degree on!" But if she does so BEFORE being reduced to some mans hump rag and broodmare? She is a bitch, selfish, evil, hates children etc. we basically bully black women into mediocrity. Then judge them when they land there. We privilege, aid, support, endorse the most foolish decisions and punish the wisest ones. And these black women lurk everywhere. Its not just your mama and auntie. It is the BWE, the metaphysical community, and the magical community as well. Well populated with b-lack women who mule and encourage a permanent posture of black community mule as the default position of black womanhood.

Oh. And my mama? Well to this day she sees no problem with having beaten into my head "get pregnant you are on your own" while coddling my idiot sister who was hot in the ass and wouldn't listen to Sound Wisdom much less apply it. It is no secret that i am Gifted as a Clairvoyant and I openly Embrace being The Controversial Oracle. My sister was forewarned and ignored the warning. She became pregnant 2-4 weeks after i warned her about her boyfriend. Everyone in the family knew, she still got and gets the support. And she, like most baby mamas, deserves none of it.

Why do black mothers punish daughters for success or wanting to succeed and reward the failures (the baby mamas)?

Jealousy.

Yes. It is black mothers jealousy that her daughter didnt repeat her stupidity. Oh black mamas say do better. But they punish you when you do. And they privilege the foolish siblings and hand them what should be going to you. My mentor says: "help is always given to those who do not need it." Which tells me, spiritually, baby mamas don't need help. If they did neeeeedddd it? They certainly wouldn't receive it! Usually it is those who do not need assistance who are granted said assistance.

Anyway, it was during this time period that this one 40 (FORTY) year old baby mama on my job would always try to argue with me (she found Devas back in da day Blog lol) about how unfair my beliefs were. It isnt fair to say that women with children are poor only because they were foolish and had babies they couldn't afford. It isnt fair to say that women can and must control their own pussy and fertility. I was the "privileged" one, she balked. It was me who had the easy life, she balked. Yes. Baby mamas pride themselves on being a mule. They also assume that women who were wiser and didnt breed have "easy lives" or "no problems." I just never understood why women who sport-fuck their way into obscurity should be rewarded or helped at all? What makes your value greater than someone who doesnt have babies attached to their womanhood, sexuality, identity and worldview? Why is motherhood the default privileged position afforded to women no matter how degraded (baby mama) the form of motherhood is? You ruined your own life. Why do you deserve any consideration? Why weren't you thinking about these things before you decided to let one slip past the goalie?

It especially bothered me, as a teen, how women get sympathy for being willing baby mamas. When women who are victims of harsh crimes and experiences get shamed. I never understood that. Still don't. The baby mama on my job kept saying "its divisive to think this way." Honeybee, we are always divided. My tax dollars feed your children and and keep the heat on in your house.What is more divisive than you getting to be an absolute fool, and also having access to benefits i dont qualify for, but that i am expected and forced to fund and supply for the enjoyment of you and your children?

I remember having to choose between having heat in BOSTON during winter and having my books for school. While the baby mamas of Boston got fuel assistance and the gas company by designation of the LAW cannot cut her power because of her children. Are women who breed some how more worthy of humanity and consideration than women who were smarter and didn't? Do women who have been broodmares deserve heat more than women who have not? Do women who are broodmares deserve college assistance while the smart women who didn't sport fuck herself into neediness does not? The entire system would seem to be established that way. To reward mediocrity and willful stupidity, over ambition, drive and tenacity.

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Matthew 25 King James Version (KJV)

1 Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom.
2 And five of them were wise, and five were foolish.
3 They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them:
4 But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps.
5 While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.
6 And at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him.
7 Then all those virgins arose, and trimmed their lamps.
8 And the foolish said unto the wise, Give us of your oil; for our lamps are gone out.
9 But the wise answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for us and you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for yourselves.
10 And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came; and they that were ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was shut.
11 Afterward came also the other virgins, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us.
12 But he answered and said, Verily I say unto you, I know you not.
13 Watch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh.
14 For the kingdom of heaven is as a man travelling into a far country, who called his own servants, and delivered unto them his goods.
15 And unto one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one; to every man according to his several ability; and straightway took his journey.
16 Then he that had received the five talents went and traded with the same, and made them other five talents.
17 And likewise he that had received two, he also gained other two.
18 But he that had received one went and digged in the earth, and hid his lord's money.
19 After a long time the lord of those servants cometh, and reckoneth with them.
20 And so he that had received five talents came and brought other five talents, saying, Lord, thou deliveredst unto me five talents: behold, I have gained beside them five talents more.
21 His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord.
22 He also that had received two talents came and said, Lord, thou deliveredst unto me two talents: behold, I have gained two other talents beside them.
23 His lord said unto him, Well done, good and faithful servant; thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord.
24 Then he which had received the one talent came and said, Lord, I knew thee that thou art an hard man, reaping where thou hast not sown, and gathering where thou hast not strawed:
25 And I was afraid, and went and hid thy talent in the earth: lo, there thou hast that is thine.
26 His lord answered and said unto him, Thou wicked and slothful servant, thou knewest that I reap where I sowed not, and gather where I have not strawed:
27 Thou oughtest therefore to have put my money to the exchangers, and then at my coming I should have received mine own with usury.
28 Take therefore the talent from him, and give it unto him which hath ten talents.
29 For unto every one that hath shall be given, and he shall have abundance: but from him that hath not shall be taken away even that which he hath.
30 And cast ye the unprofitable servant into outer darkness: there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.


This has been true for far too long. I have always said, remove the aid from baby mama access and the baby mamas population will reduce itself. My mother insisted that i know that getting myself knocked up meant i could no longer live with her. That reality was so ugly, so beneath my worth and value; I wouldnt even sexually engage men, because i knew what happened next.  I knew my value was greater than being some mans baby mama broodmare. My life had a greater value than welfare lines, family court and Struggle. When women know they can get knocked up by some mongrel and go stand in a line for a few benefits? They will. If they knew they had absolutely NO SUPPORT AT ALL to look forward to? They would be smarter.

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I had a former friend decide that instead of adding services to her business to increase her profit margin, it would be best if she went and applied for assistance. I couldn't even fathom how that was considered as an option until i learned that she was already on a state supported crutch. Once you begin sucking on State Teat, you become dependent and brain dead. No creative energy or spark at all. When she told me that i just shook my head and ended the call. We didnt speak for months either. That is how disgusted i was with the willing subscription to lack. Sucking State Teat renders women foolish, needy, unable to self start, lacking creative ambition and a reduction in her confidence in her ability as well. It completely diminishes their inspiration to better themselves. the State Teat Sucking breeds a mentality of entitlement and a near permanent poverty Mindframe. I'm no republican either, before you cry your damn liberal tears! I am a "BeSmartican" and always have been.
Sucking State Teat renders women foolish, needy, unable to self start, lacking creative ambition and a reduction in her confidence in her ability as well. It completely diminishes their inspiration to better themselves. the State Teat Sucking breeds a mentality of entitlement and a near permanent poverty Mindframe. I'm no republican either, before you cry your damn liberal tears! I am a "BeSmartican" and always have been.

While black and poor white/Latina etc women are stagnantly State Teat sucking? The wealthy class of motherhood is creating the inventions these women use for their children. I was watching this just the other day while in my Spa. These Wealthy (mostly white) mothers who were single poor mommies or married working class mommies who used their ingenuity to create their first million dollars. Motherhood is a gross burden on women's time, energy, financial reserves and her spirit. As such she becomes Cattle after being a mother, especially if she is poor or working class. I say all the time, it is expensive to raise children; A quarter million a minimum. When women have children without being compensated it causes them to mother from that deficit.

Are you sexually active? Do you have $250,000 laying around? If the answer to question 2 was no? You have no right ruining your life by birthing a child. Do not allow yourself to become impregnated, make a commitment to terminate any pregnancy that may occur and don't dare become a financial child abuser by breeding in poverty. Don't tell me about ya man making good enough money. Unless you are raising merely good enough quality children. And if so do ya thang. But motherhood deserves a higher standard. And if women are content to reduce themselves to cattle and broodmares, at least understand that said choice will mean you are also reducing the value of your children s lives and enjoyment of their lives.  If we really loved children, poverty would be classified as financial child abuse and dealt with accordingly. Mothering in poverty is indeed financial child abuse. It is the worst form of psychological, emotional, physical and mental abuse to be inflicted upon a child. Especially a black child.

I agree with the sister in the video! Black people DO support the underbelly more than the talented group. Black folks do not invest shyt in the development of our talent. Then cry when said talent doesn't "reach back" and help the under wise masses of black people. I have a hard time feeling bad for women who are mothers. It is just so easy to be far Wiser and not be reduced to some broodmare. I did it. So i know it isn't that hard.

To my core, I understand women being in need. But when I was a child? I had to learn quickly, i had to be observant i had to share the burden of mothering within a deficit. Our bad experiences and poverty were due to my mothers foolish choices. Her choice in the man she bred with, her choice to marry said man, her choice to reduce herself to some martyr of a mammy. It wasn't racism or the government, even though we heard about both plenty. It was her foolish submission and love for black men (my father. Then my sisters baby daddy, up until he got her pregnant and threatened her and the baby...) that impeded our lives and taxes our relationships with one another.

Women don't want to own how our choices impact us. When i began sexually engaging men, birth control was important. When i stopped using hormonal methods? I learned natural contraception. (Which is what we should do. Instead of lazily and mindlessly swallowing pills or getting shots etc.) it was of primary importance to me that i not be reduced to some black mans baby mama. And crystal clear to me that ALL men are a liability in a woman's life. Double it if he is black. As being the black mans baby mama is nearly a death sentence and surely a promise of being abandoned and left for dead with your children.
Women need to just start being honest with themselves. And we who were far smarter than the rest? We who are not broodmares?

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Lets all celebrate ourselves and look at all the foolish women as an example of what not to be. To all my Far Wiser sisters who are child free? I salute you. I privilege you, i value you above all. Because you are not a burden to the image and style of black womanhood. Lets not repeat their mistakes. Once a woman has let a man impregnate her? Its all over but the crying, she is mostly trapped between her dreams of family and her present nightmare of single mamadom. Dont let that foolish woman be you.


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Anti-Black Woman Stereotypes Prevent LISTENING to Valid Concerns

7/4/2014

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Black women are bitter

Black women are angry

Black women are jealous

Black women lie

Black women steal

Black women cover up

Black women pretend



This is the dominant narrative, the predominant picture and description afforded to black women. Of all women on the planet, our rage, our hate, our disgust, our outrage is the most feared, policed, dismissed, of all women on the planet. When we are OUTRAGED, you can bet your bottom dollar there will be someone out there defining it. Your outrage, enrage, anger, pain, lived-experiences themselves are already named, judged, dismissed and ignored. Both by society at large:

But especially by other black women!

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It is nearly impossible to approach black women about things that upset you. Double it if what you find to be troublesome, is something SHE is engaged in as a lifestyle. She will defend, to the death, her right to continue on as she is. She will, frankly, name the ways that her choices have manifested ill in her life. She will also, viciously, defend her right to carry on at the expense of women and girls.

One thing I have experienced in the last year is this concept of the "ma-sun" being preached by black women. I witnessed a comment a few months back on a video featuring Busta Rhymes, where he went to africa, hugged a black woman and kissed her, he shed a tear and said its good to be home. He shared some pretty heartfelt, deep seeming, expressions. The kinds of things that black women with sons crave to hear, or even black women who have been abused or maligned by black men. Suddenly, the women were shouting, praising the Great Mother and calling him a "Ma-Sun returned home."

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No one should be shocked to learn it disgusted me, and that I spoke on it. I found those women to be foolish, this man can make millions of dollars selling black women's image to the world for his profit, kiss one black womans face and suddenly he is redeemed? This is all it takes for the horrors that men have subjected women to, to be absolved? A black man need merely be videotaped speaking 6 kind words about one black woman to absolve his lifetime of disrespect, for his profiting from rap(e) culture, for sport-fuckin-thru-women, female degradation for male empowerment/culture/rap and more. 

When I pointed out that he had done NOTHING redemption worthy, or absolution worthy, much less had he atoned for shyt he has done.... the attack was on me. I was the evil, bitter, black man hater who simply needed to get some "healing." This seemingly is the full depth of black women's analytic ability. Much less an ability to engage in a cogent discourse about our own Divine Right to Name and set precedents.  Even we black women have learned to tune one another out, to dismiss and reject, as valid, the expression or experience of our sisteren. Oh we TALK a good game about "sisterhood" but we certainly don't often back it up. 

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All women are psychic.

All women are healers.

But not all women are DOING the work! Often times, those with the greatest passion, also are warring great battles. We see this, we judge it (jealousy, bitterness, anger, immaturity, just to name a few) and package it away. In our lives, in the lives of one another, we have to be so careful! Everyone you see is fighting a great battle. Even you, yourself, are fighting a great battle; we wake up daily at war with forces/people/situations/doubts/fears/health-issues.

This makes it very difficult to reach across that isle. One thing I make very clear, during my speaking engagements, on the Angry Deva's Radio show, and in my Private Work with sisters, is:

Our rage is our power. This is untapped power, in our lives. Many black women are depressed and in poor health, simply because they have endured for too long, in silence. We are so tailored, so in need of being contained and appearing to be "fine" that we are busting at the seams.

The squeaky wheel gets the most oil.

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In my life? It was fear of what other people, other black women, might say about me. This fear of the judgment of others impedes our growth. Learning to embrace our darkness? Owning all those spaces that others have judged in you?

This is the key to healing and the reason i began the Priestess of In-Formation 1 on 1 Mentoring sessions. Womens expression are policed, and then women are judged by the words they say or dont say. In a global culture of religious supremacy, no one is practicing what they preach. Why are women being judged or condemned here in America, if there is No Condemnation Or Jusgment of others permitted in the "christian faith" that allegedly "gave birth" to this nation?

Why must women "behave" well for the faux "promised land" of a cease fire of male sexual terrorism? Why must women "love men" when men, as a cohort, express global hatred for women and girls? In my Priestess of In-Formation Mentoring Sessions, we discuss these things. As well we explore:

* healing the rage of trauma

* checking the negative committee

* how to tap into your Anger as Power vs Poison

* How to mine for Peals

* Divine Timing lessons

And more.

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The reason i do this? Is because women are still, for all our alleged freedoms of speech and movement, under attack! Our expressions are attacked, our right to express ourselves, the articulation of our thoughts and more. I have recently been subject to heinous attacks by mothers of sons. Why?

For the simple act of admitting that there is no value in birthing men. And that they are kidding themselves to believe that rebirthing man is a worth while prospect! I was informed i shouldn't talk about it! Because i am not a mother. See how so we cease being cows in patriarchy, when no one can wake us up!? What the hell tells them that they can speak on gay marriage and a litany of other topics they themselves have absolutely no worldview on by realm of "personal experience." I forgot, they have dickism to back up their, inherently patriarchal, need to pontificate regurgitated jizzm.

Do you really think, for one second, that these "sons" are your golden ticket? Oh honey, that's funny! For thousands of centuries they have been the bane of our existence. How quickly we forget logic and wisdom for the all too fe-male emotional, illogic and screaming fits that are preferred by privileged women when being challenged by women of less (or no) privilege over them. Hell i was even informed; by the mothers of sons, that they will win this war they waged against womanhood. And they are right, because so long as women birth men, unchecked, girls will be raped. And as long as girls and women are raped, mothers of sons win! I wish i were making this up... But yes on the open air i was told by mothers of sons that they would win the war against us and that their sons would fuck us all up! This, (male sexual terrorism) unfortunately, is what they mean.

Their ultimate goal is to be god through their son. Due to an ill fated believe that they are nothing without him. And this ill fated belief, this antiquated mythos, has permeated our culture. So now these men feel entitled to our girls, and their mothers are always right there, explaining their right to do so. Their sons are god and in control of all things. Including the cattle excuse me, the women.


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Something we all need to be aware of:

The bearer of the Womb is the Sun of mama or the Ma-Sun.

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What Has Feminism Done for Black Women? The Combahee River Collective

7/2/2014

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On the Angry Deva's Radio Show, we discussed what Feminism has Done for Black Women. I also discussed a bit of the Combahee River Collective's Statement. It is extremely imperative that Black Wombn remember their Sacred Origins as the Original Mother and
as the Keeper of Sacred Wisdom, Gnosis and Power. The regular submission of black women to false gods, and false male god doctrines is the crux of all issues in our communities around the Globe. 

Angry Deva's Radio Show: 
What has Feminism Done for Us?

More Pop Culture Podcasts at Blog Talk Radio with TripleDarkGodis Radio on BlogTalkRadio
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Below is the link to the Show and under that is a copy of their statement. Read and Learn!

The Combahee River Collective Statement 

Combahee River Collective

We are a collective of Black feminists who have been meeting together since 1974. [1] During that time we have been involved in the process of defining and clarifying our politics, while at the same time doing political work within our own group and in coalition with other progressive organizations and movements. The most general statement of our politics at the present time would be that we are actively committed to struggling against racial, sexual, heterosexual, and class oppression, and see as our particular task the development of integrated analysis and practice based upon the fact that the major systems of oppression are interlocking. The synthesis of these oppressions creates the conditions of our lives. As Black women we see Black feminism as the logical political movement to combat the manifold and simultaneous oppressions that all women of color face.

We will discuss four major topics in the paper that follows: (1) the genesis of contemporary Black feminism; (2) what we believe, i.e., the specific province of our politics; (3) the problems in organizing Black feminists, including a brief herstory of our collective; and (4) Black feminist issues and practice.
1. The genesis of Contemporary Black FeminismBefore looking at the recent development of Black feminism we would like to affirm that we find our origins in the historical reality of Afro-American women's continuous life-and-death struggle for survival and liberation. Black women's extremely negative relationship to the American political system (a system of white male rule) has always been determined by our membership in two oppressed racial and sexual castes. As Angela Davis points out in "Reflections on the Black Woman's Role in the Community of Slaves," Black women have always embodied, if only in their physical manifestation, an adversary stance to white male rule and have actively resisted its inroads upon them and their communities in both dramatic and subtle ways. There have always been Black women activists—some known, like Sojourner Truth, Harriet Tubman, Frances E. W. Harper, Ida B. Wells Barnett, and Mary Church Terrell, and thousands upon thousands unknown—who have had a shared awareness of how their sexual identity combined with their racial identity to make their whole life situation and the focus of their political struggles unique. Contemporary Black feminism is the outgrowth of countless generations of personal sacrifice, militancy, and work by our mothers and sisters.

A Black feminist presence has evolved most obviously in connection with the second wave of the American women's movement beginning in the late 1960s. Black, other Third World, and working women have been involved in the feminist movement from its start, but both outside reactionary forces and racism and elitism within the movement itself have served to obscure our participation. In 1973, Black feminists, primarily located in New York, felt the necessity of forming a separate Black feminist group. This became the National Black Feminist Organization (NBFO).

Black feminist politics also have an obvious connection to movements for Black liberation, particularly those of the 1960s and I970s. Many of us were active in those movements (Civil Rights, Black nationalism, the Black Panthers), and all of our lives Were greatly affected and changed by their ideologies, their goals, and the tactics used to achieve their goals. It was our experience and disillusionment within these liberation movements, as well as experience on the periphery of the white male left, that led to the need to develop a politics that was anti-racist, unlike those of white women, and anti-sexist, unlike those of Black and white men.

There is also undeniably a personal genesis for Black Feminism, that is, the political realization that comes from the seemingly personal experiences of individual Black women's lives. Black feminists and many more Black women who do not define themselves as feminists have all experienced sexual oppression as a constant factor in our day-to-day existence. As children we realized that we were different from boys and that we were treated differently. For example, we were told in the same breath to be quiet both for the sake of being "ladylike" and to make us less objectionable in the eyes of white people. As we grew older we became aware of the threat of physical and sexual abuse by men. However, we had no way of conceptualizing what was so apparent to us, what we knew was really happening.

Black feminists often talk about their feelings of craziness before becoming conscious of the concepts of sexual politics, patriarchal rule, and most importantly, feminism, the political analysis and practice that we women use to struggle against our oppression. The fact that racial politics and indeed racism are pervasive factors in our lives did not allow us, and still does not allow most Black women, to look more deeply into our own experiences and, from that sharing and growing consciousness, to build a politics that will change our lives and inevitably end our oppression. Our development must also be tied to the contemporary economic and political position of Black people. The post World War II generation of Black youth was the first to be able to minimally partake of certain educational and employment options, previously closed completely to Black people. Although our economic position is still at the very bottom of the American capitalistic economy, a handful of us have been able to gain certain tools as a result of tokenism in education and employment which potentially enable us to more effectively fight our oppression.

A combined anti-racist and anti-sexist position drew us together initially, and as we developed politically we addressed ourselves to heterosexism and economic oppression under capItalism.

2. What We BelieveAbove all else, Our politics initially sprang from the shared belief that Black women are inherently valuable, that our liberation is a necessity not as an adjunct to somebody else's may because of our need as human persons for autonomy. This may seem so obvious as to sound simplistic, but it is apparent that no other ostensibly progressive movement has ever consIdered our specific oppression as a priority or worked seriously for the ending of that oppression. Merely naming the pejorative stereotypes attributed to Black women (e.g. mammy, matriarch, Sapphire, whore, bulldagger), let alone cataloguing the cruel, often murderous, treatment we receive, Indicates how little value has been placed upon our lives during four centuries of bondage in the Western hemisphere. We realize that the only people who care enough about us to work consistently for our liberation are us. Our politics evolve from a healthy love for ourselves, our sisters and our community which allows us to continue our struggle and work.

This focusing upon our own oppression is embodied in the concept of identity politics. We believe that the most profound and potentially most radical politics come directly out of our own identity, as opposed to working to end somebody else's oppression. In the case of Black women this is a particularly repugnant, dangerous, threatening, and therefore revolutionary concept because it is obvious from looking at all the political movements that have preceded us that anyone is more worthy of liberation than ourselves. We reject pedestals, queenhood, and walking ten paces behind. To be recognized as human, levelly human, is enough.

We believe that sexual politics under patriarchy is as pervasive in Black women's lives as are the politics of class and race. We also often find it difficult to separate race from class from sex oppression because in our lives they are most often experienced simultaneously. We know that there is such a thing as racial-sexual oppression which is neither solely racial nor solely sexual, e.g., the history of rape of Black women by white men as a weapon of political repression.

Although we are feminists and Lesbians, we feel solidarity with progressive Black men and do not advocate the fractionalization that white women who are separatists demand. Our situation as Black people necessitates that we have solidarity around the fact of race, which white women of course do not need to have with white men, unless it is their negative solidarity as racial oppressors. We struggle together with Black men against racism, while we also struggle with Black men about sexism.

We realize that the liberation of all oppressed peoples necessitates the destruction of the political-economic systems of capitalism and imperialism as well as patriarchy. We are socialists because we believe that work must be organized for the collective benefit of those who do the work and create the products, and not for the profit of the bosses. Material resources must be equally distributed among those who create these resources. We are not convinced, however, that a socialist revolution that is not also a feminist and anti-racist revolution will guarantee our liberation. We have arrived at the necessity for developing an understanding of class relationships that takes into account the specific class position of Black women who are generally marginal in the labor force, while at this particular time some of us are temporarily viewed as doubly desirable tokens at white-collar and professional levels. We need to articulate the real class situation of persons who are not merely raceless, sexless workers, but for whom racial and sexual oppression are significant determinants in their working/economic lives. Although we are in essential agreement with Marx's theory as it applied to the very specific economic relationships he analyzed, we know that his analysis must be extended further in order for us to understand our specific economic situation as Black women.

A political contribution which we feel we have already made is the expansion of the feminist principle that the personal is political. In our consciousness-raising sessions, for example, we have in many ways gone beyond white women's revelations because we are dealing with the implications of race and class as well as sex. Even our Black women's style of talking/testifying in Black language about what we have experienced has a resonance that is both cultural and political. We have spent a great deal of energy delving into the cultural and experiential nature of our oppression out of necessity because none of these matters has ever been looked at before. No one before has ever examined the multilayered texture of Black women's lives. An example of this kind of revelation/conceptualization occurred at a meeting as we discussed the ways in which our early intellectual interests had been attacked by our peers, particularly Black males. We discovered that all of us, because we were "smart" had also been considered "ugly," i.e., "smart-ugly." "Smart-ugly" crystallized the way in which most of us had been forced to develop our intellects at great cost to our "social" lives. The sanctions In the Black and white communities against Black women thinkers is comparatively much higher than for white women, particularly ones from the educated middle and upper classes.

As we have already stated, we reject the stance of Lesbian separatism because it is not a viable political analysis or strategy for us. It leaves out far too much and far too many people, particularly Black men, women, and children. We have a great deal of criticism and loathing for what men have been socialized to be in this society: what they support, how they act, and how they oppress. But we do not have the misguided notion that it is their maleness, per se—i.e., their biological maleness—that makes them what they are. As BIack women we find any type of biological determinism a particularly dangerous and reactionary basis upon which to build a politic. We must also question whether Lesbian separatism is an adequate and progressive political analysis and strategy, even for those who practice it, since it so completely denies any but the sexual sources of women's oppression, negating the facts of class and race.

3. Problems in Organizing Black FeministsDuring our years together as a Black feminist collective we have experienced success and defeat, joy and pain, victory and failure. We have found that it is very difficult to organize around Black feminist issues, difficult even to announce in certain contexts that we are Black feminists. We have tried to think about the reasons for our difficulties, particularly since the white women's movement continues to be strong and to grow in many directions. In this section we will discuss some of the general reasons for the organizing problems we face and also talk specifically about the stages in organizing our own collective.

The major source of difficulty in our political work is that we are not just trying to fight oppression on one front or even two, but instead to address a whole range of oppressions. We do not have racial, sexual, heterosexual, or class privilege to rely upon, nor do we have even the minimal access to resources and power that groups who possess anyone of these types of privilege have.

The psychological toll of being a Black woman and the difficulties this presents in reaching political consciousness and doing political work can never be underestimated. There is a very low value placed upon Black women's psyches in this society, which is both racist and sexist. As an early group member once said, "We are all damaged people merely by virtue of being Black women." We are dispossessed psychologically and on every other level, and yet we feel the necessity to struggle to change the condition of all Black women. In "A Black Feminist's Search for Sisterhood," Michele Wallace arrives at this conclusion:

We exists as women who are Black who are feminists, each stranded for the moment, working independently because there is not yet an environment in this society remotely congenial to our struggle—because, being on the bottom, we would have to do what no one else has done: we would have to fight the world. [2]

Wallace is pessimistic but realistic in her assessment of Black feminists' position, particularly in her allusion to the nearly classic isolation most of us face. We might use our position at the bottom, however, to make a clear leap into revolutionary action. If Black women were free, it would mean that everyone else would have to be free since our freedom would necessitate the destruction of all the systems of oppression.

Feminism is, nevertheless, very threatening to the majority of Black people because it calls into question some of the most basic assumptions about our existence, i.e., that sex should be a determinant of power relationships. Here is the way male and female roles were defined in a Black nationalist pamphlet from the early 1970s:

We understand that it is and has been traditional that the man is the head of the house. He is the leader of the house/nation because his knowledge of the world is broader, his awareness is greater, his understanding is fuller and his application of this information is wiser... After all, it is only reasonable that the man be the head of the house because he is able to defend and protect the development of his home... Women cannot do the same things as men—they are made by nature to function differently. Equality of men and women is something that cannot happen even in the abstract world. Men are not equal to other men, i.e. ability, experience or even understanding. The value of men and women can be seen as in the value of gold and silver—they are not equal but both have great value. We must realize that men and women are a complement to each other because there is no house/family without a man and his wife. Both are essential to the development of any life. [3]

The material conditions of most Black women would hardly lead them to upset both economic and sexual arrangements that seem to represent some stability in their lives. Many Black women have a good understanding of both sexism and racism, but because of the everyday constrictions of their lives, cannot risk struggling against them both.

The reaction of Black men to feminism has been notoriously negative. They are, of course, even more threatened than Black women by the possibility that Black feminists might organize around our own needs. They realize that they might not only lose valuable and hardworking allies in their struggles but that they might also be forced to change their habitually sexist ways of interacting with and oppressing Black women. Accusations that Black feminism divides the Black struggle are powerful deterrents to the growth of an autonomous Black women's movement.

Still, hundreds of women have been active at different times during the three-year existence of our group. And every Black woman who came, came out of a strongly-felt need for some level of possibility that did not previously exist in her life.

When we first started meeting early in 1974 after the NBFO first eastern regional conference, we did not have a strategy for organizing, or even a focus. We just wanted to see what we had. After a period of months of not meeting, we began to meet again late in the year and started doing an intense variety of consciousness-raising. The overwhelming feeling that we had is that after years and years we had finally found each other. Although we were not doing political work as a group, individuals continued their involvement in Lesbian politics, sterilization abuse and abortion rights work, Third World Women's International Women's Day activities, and support activity for the trials of Dr. Kenneth Edelin, Joan Little, and Inéz García. During our first summer when membership had dropped off considerably, those of us remaining devoted serious discussion to the possibility of opening a refuge for battered women in a Black community. (There was no refuge in Boston at that time.) We also decided around that time to become an independent collective since we had serious disagreements with NBFO's bourgeois-feminist stance and their lack of a clear politIcal focus.

We also were contacted at that time by socialist feminists, with whom we had worked on abortion rights activities, who wanted to encourage us to attend the National Socialist Feminist Conference in Yellow Springs. One of our members did attend and despite the narrowness of the ideology that was promoted at that particular conference, we became more aware of the need for us to understand our own economic situation and to make our own economic analysis.

In the fall, when some members returned, we experienced several months of comparative inactivity and internal disagreements which were first conceptualized as a Lesbian-straight split but which were also the result of class and political differences. During the summer those of us who were still meeting had determined the need to do political work and to move beyond consciousness-raising and serving exclusively as an emotional support group. At the beginning of 1976, when some of the women who had not wanted to do political work and who also had voiced disagreements stopped attending of their own accord, we again looked for a focus. We decided at that time, with the addition of new members, to become a study group. We had always shared our reading with each other, and some of us had written papers on Black feminism for group discussion a few months before this decision was made. We began functioning as a study group and also began discussing the possibility of starting a Black feminist publication. We had a retreat in the late spring which provided a time for both political discussion and working out interpersonal issues. Currently we are planning to gather together a collectIon of Black feminist writing. We feel that it is absolutely essential to demonstrate the reality of our politics to other Black women and believe that we can do this through writing and distributing our work. The fact that individual Black feminists are living in isolation all over the country, that our own numbers are small, and that we have some skills in writing, printing, and publishing makes us want to carry out these kinds of projects as a means of organizing Black feminists as we continue to do political work in coalition with other groups.

4. Black Feminist Issues and ProjectsDuring our time together we have identified and worked on many issues of particular relevance to Black women. The inclusiveness of our politics makes us concerned with any situation that impinges upon the lives of women, Third World and working people. We are of course particularly committed to working on those struggles in which race, sex, and class are simultaneous factors in oppression. We might, for example, become involved in workplace organizing at a factory that employs Third World women or picket a hospital that is cutting back on already inadequate heath care to a Third World community, or set up a rape crisis center in a Black neighborhood. Organizing around welfare and daycare concerns might also be a focus. The work to be done and the countless issues that this work represents merely reflect the pervasiveness of our oppression.

Issues and projects that collective members have actually worked on are sterilization abuse, abortion rights, battered women, rape and health care. We have also done many workshops and educationals on Black feminism on college campuses, at women's conferences, and most recently for high school women.

One issue that is of major concern to us and that we have begun to publicly address is racism in the white women's movement. As Black feminists we are made constantly and painfully aware of how little effort white women have made to understand and combat their racism, which requires among other things that they have a more than superficial comprehension of race, color, and Black history and culture. Eliminating racism in the white women's movement is by definition work for white women to do, but we will continue to speak to and demand accountability on this issue.

In the practice of our politics we do not believe that the end always justifies the means. Many reactionary and destructive acts have been done in the name of achieving "correct" political goals. As feminists we do not want to mess over people in the name of politics. We believe in collective process and a nonhierarchical distribution of power within our own group and in our vision of a revolutionary society. We are committed to a continual examination of our politics as they develop through criticism and self-criticism as an essential aspect of our practice. In her introduction to Sisterhood is Powerful Robin Morgan writes:

I haven't the faintest notion what possible revolutionary role white heterosexual men could fulfill, since they are the very embodiment of reactionary-vested-interest-power.

As Black feminists and Lesbians we know that we have a very definite revolutionary task to perform and we are ready for the lifetime of work and struggle before us.
[1] This statement is dated April 1977.

[2] Wallace, Michele. "A Black Feminist's Search for Sisterhood," The Village Voice, 28 July 1975, pp. 6-7.

[3] Mumininas of Committee for Unified Newark, Mwanamke Mwananchi (The Nationalist Woman), Newark, N.J., ©1971, pp. 4-5.

THE COMBAHEE RIVER COLLECTIVE: "The Combahee River Collective Statement," copyright © 1978 by Zillah Eisenstein.

I did not ask for permission to post this; it is a resource I looked for and did not find in my local public library or online. I eventually found it in the book Home Girls, A Black Feminist Anthology, edited by Barbara Smith, ©1983, published by Kitchen Table: Women of Color Press, Inc., New York, New York.

My email is bec•white at gmail•com.

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The Erasure of Blackness: Aaliyah

6/16/2014

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According to our sources, sweet faced singer/actress Zendaya Coleman has snagged the role of Aaliyah (who was affectionately known as “baby girl”) in a biopic that is set to debut on VH1 later this year.

Listen... I won't write a friggin dissertation like some. Promise!

This is no different than the Zoe Saldana bs as Nina Simone. And as long as we, Black Wombn, dont own our image? They will continue to use mixed race women as the sole representation of blackness. Light skinned women are privileged over dark or even brown women. Always have been. Always will be so long as those women are allowed to don the faces of True Black Wombn.

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10 Harmful Things Single Mothers Do To Ruin Their Sons Lives

6/6/2014

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This article was NOT written by the Angry Deva, though I found many interesting components therein. I, unlike most, know how to sift for the pearls. Give it a shot.

The Lord spoke to me and said, “Arise and break this generational curse!” He was speaking about the mass number of single mothers who raise their sons to fail in life. Let me start by saying, there are good single mothers in our society and I applaud those women. They work tirelessly, with little or no help, to see that their children are provided for and well rounded.

The sacrifices they make for their families cannot be measured in any lifetime. This clarion call is not about those women. This is about the numerous modern day single moms who set their sons on a sure path of rebellion, disrespect and dishonor

Raising Boys Wrong…
In the state of Georgia, as in most urban areas, two thirds of the Black children born, are born to unwed mothers. Most of those boys will grow up to be unproductive men in our society. For irrefutable proof one only needs to examine:

  • The high school drop out rate amongst boys from single-family homes.
  • The incarceration statistics for boys raised by single moms.
  • The mass number of single mothers who have trained their boys to devalue and disrespect the entire female gender


Am I blaming society’s ills on single mothers? No! Am I attacking or demonizing single mothers? A thousand times no! I am dealing with a critical issue that has devastated multiple generations. One that has not been properly dealt with for too long. I have watched this particular group of single mothers reek havoc and sow seeds of discord in the lives of countless children. I had one incident in which a woman, (I’ll call Racine ) was dating a man, she got pregnant by him and they moved in together.

Like many women who give themselves to dishonorable men, Racine assumed that she could change him and that he would eventually marry her. She was so convinced of her abilities to alter his conduct, that she got pregnant, AGAIN! You should know that Racine was in the church while this disgraceful chain of events took place. After their second child, her live-in boyfriend just up and left. He coldly and calculatedly abandoned her and both of their kids.
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It is no secret that this is the norm for single women who get pregnant by their boyfriends. But like many women, Racine chose to ignore those irrefutable facts. She somehow believed her situation would be different than the countless single women who are left pregnant and alone every year. Before bolting, her enigmatic lover prepped his family, friends and co-workers not to divulge any information of his whereabouts to his ex.

For three months Racine pleaded with his family and friends to tell her what happened. After constantly listening to her forlorned cries, one of his family members couldn’t take it anymore. She broke down and told Racine the truth. Her Night In Pining Armour had dumped her and hurriedly married some bimbo. When Racine heard the heart traumatizing truth, she promptly joined the (BSMC), Bitter Single Mother’s Club. She turned into an angry and vengeful single mom.

Her means of getting revenge against her ex was to physically abuse both their children. She would do things such as force them to sit outside in the freezing cold for hours at a time. She would choke her older son, ( I’ll call Joseph ) while swearing at him and cursing his father. Because of her physically and verbally abusive behavior, Joseph learned to hate females.

Because of how his mother abused him and his little brother, Joseph detests the female gender with an unforgiving passion. Like his mother had been drilling in his ears for years, he followed in the footsteps of his father. He got a female pregnant while in high school, but instead of abandoning her and baby like his dad, he married her. Not because he loved her, but to prove his mother wrong. Joseph had taken on the same vengeful and abusive spirit as his mom.

In less than two weeks after saying, “I do!” he physically assaulted his new bride. He has been abusing her ever since. Even at my behest, his wife refused to file charges. She felt as though she could change him. Their little girl will be 5-years-old in 2004 and Joseph has never held a conversation with her because of distrust and hatred of all females. The only things he has said to his daughter is, “Shut up! Didn’t I tell you… No! Sit down and, go get me a…”

Joseph kicked her across the room one night when she attempted to stop him from physically assaulting her mother. Did you comprehend what you just read? You just read how generational curses are started. Even worse, Joseph’s daughter is a likely candidate to believe that all men are dogs and become an angry Black female.
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BURRRRRNNNN!!!! Deva Fiyah
What you are reading are not aberrations. These incidents happen everyday. I could share with you so many other cases and incidents such as the large number of single mothers who for various reasons refuse to divulge to their kids who their true biological father are. These women don’t realize how their callous insensitivity has damaged their children.

I realize that what I’m sharing may be painful and may open up some festering wounds. It may even spark some dissenting and harsh responses. However, until we openly deal with this issue by shining the Light of God’s Word upon it, healing can never come. And the devastating curse of misogynistic men and angry boys will continue.

Some of you will read this article and say, “What about the things the men are doing and why didn’t you mention how daughters are affected when they don’t have a dad?” I’ll deal with the dishonorable men, deadbeat dads and daughters in another session. I cannot cover all of life’s issues in one article. Right now, our focus is the ten harmful things certain single mothers do to ruin their son’s lives.

If you are a single mother, this is an opportunity for you to look in the mirror of life and ascertain that you are not setting your son up for manhood meltdown. If you answer “Yes” to any of these test questions, make no mistake about it, you are indoctrinating your son for failure. He will develop a corrupted view of manhood, so take these test questions serious. 
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Pretty much, including the mothers of sons who take issue with truth being told.
1. Do You Poison Your Son’s Mind Against His Biological Father?


Some women knowingly and intentionally perform this evil scheme. Others do it unintentionally. While boys are young, this vengeful act seems harmless, but as they grow older, they develop bitterness against their fathers. This root of bitterness, (See Hebrews 12:15 and Romans 3:14) will manifest itself in other areas of these boy’s lives. They play out their parental distress by becoming overtly rebellious, joining gangs, committing crimes and engaging in other self-destructive activities such as domestic violence and homosexuality.

As Founder and CEO of Mastering Manhood, I constantly meet men who were turned against their biological father by their moms. I have listened to men tell how they thought about killing their dads or wanting to hurt him just to get even for being abandoned. In many cases, their dads did not abandon them. Some of these mothers refused to allow the child to interact with his father as a way to punish the boy’s father. These mothers were being plain evil by fueling poisonous lies of child abandonment.

If you are a single mother, don’t speak offensively about your child’s father to your child. Even if it is true! You may be angry at him for not marrying you or for breaking up with you, or for whatever reason. But you must understand; by poisoning your child against his dad, you are accomplishing two damnable feats. You are embedding:

  • A spirit of discord into your child’s heart
  • a spirit of hatred and malice into your child’s heart
2. Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Mentality?
You may hate the father of your child. You may hate all men. You may feel justified in your malice because of how men have treated you. However, all men are not dogs! Good men do exist! A portion of the men who become dogs were trained to be that way by their disgruntled mothers. These boys listen to their moms speak hypercritically, denounce and condemn all men until they develop a disparaging complex about being a male.

Once those seeds are planted in their impressionable minds and hearts, these boys lose hope about being an honorable man. Their mother’s words become a prophetic utterance. Albeit a negative one. Single moms, you must find ways to encourage your son and put a stop to words and actions that dismantle his vision of being a decent man. All men are not dogs!

3. Do You Play The Dating Game?
As a single mother, you cannot afford to play the worldly dating game of love, sex and relationships. When you become a revolving door for hordes of males, you indoctrinate your son to systematically devalue and disrespect the female gender. By watching an assortment of males freely enter into and abruptly exit out of your life, your son learns firsthand how to become a playa player, pimp, baller and shot caller.

As he witnesses your failed relationships, tears of regret from your manifold sexual liaisons and learns how you were dumped, played, dismissed and disgraced at the hands of detestable males, his conscience becomes desensitized to the well being of all women. As you play the dating game, you persuade your son that males were called to be pimps.

As a single mother, if a man refuses to respect you as a woman and honor the fact that you have a child, he is not worthy of your companionship. You need to know that a man should not date you if he is not prepared emotionally, psychological, physically and financially to take on the responsibility of raising your child. It is an absolute waste of your time for you to date or court a man who:

  • Doesn’t want children
  • Doesn’t like children
  • Is averse to raising another man’s child
  • Is not interested in getting married
  • Has it made clear that his objective is to dishonor you sexually
As a single mother of a boy, you are largely responsible for how your son will treat the next generation of women. Take that charge serious. Don’t set your son up for sure relationship, marital and manhood meltdown. Set before him an example of honor, respect and virtue.

4. Do You Engage In The Sleepover Trap?
Time and time again, I meet single mothers who allow men to spend the night, move-in or do long-term layovers. When boys see their moms engaging in such shameful activity, they become indoctrinated to see women as sex objects, booty calls and casual sex partners. Especially when they catch mommy in bed or on the couch with strange flesh.

5. Have You Made Your Son The Man of The House?
As cute as it may seem, your son IS NOT the man of the house. He is your child! Most single mothers will never understand the psychological damage they cause by anointing their sons to be the man of the house. By falsely convincing their boys that they are men, these single moms pigeonhole their adolescents into a pressure-based environment God never intended for them to be in.

Many of these undeveloped boys feel such emotional duress, that they resort to doing the unthinkable to meet their mom’s fanatical demands of manhood. These teenage boys freely talk about selling drugs, robbing people, car jacking and committing other crimes to take care of their household. It is not their household! Nor is it their responsibility. Never call or christen your son to be the man of YOUR HOUSE! For the love of God, he is not YOUR HUSBAND, he is YOUR CHILD!

 

6. Are You Feminizing Your Son?
To feminize means to cause a male to assume feminine characteristics. The way single mothers feminize their sons is by doing things such as:

  • Having him with them while they go shopping for women’s clothing
  • Taking him to the beauty salons while they get their hair and nails done
  • Having him in the bathroom and bedroom while they primp and pamper
  • Buying him feminine toys such as girl’s bikes, dolls, etc.
  • Providing him with feminine clothes, makeup or accessories
  • Involving him in feminine activities
  • Calling him cute, primping and pampering him
  • Piercing his ears and giving him earrings
  • Belittling or minimizing male-female gender differences
  • Bringing feminine or homosexual males into his life or presence
Single mothers who allow or inspire their sons to engage in activities that cause him to be feminized are partly responsible for the mass number of passive and effeminate males in our society.

7. Are You Training Him To Be a Man?
Get this irrefutable truth engrained into your mind and heart as expediently as possible. A woman cannot train a boy to be a man any more than a man can train a girl to become a virtuous woman. A man has his limits when it comes to raising and training girls.

He can read a thousand books and attend countless lectures, but he will never be able to fully understand or explain to a girl what PMS is, a woman’s hormones or what to expect when she gets pregnant. Most men won’t even attempt to broach subjects such as a woman’s broad range of emotions and feelings, her weight or looks, tampons or why women break out and cry at certain events and situations. It takes a woman to talk to a girl about those critical facets of her life.

In the same token, as a woman, there is only so much that you can instill in or teach a boy. Accept that fact and do not try to cross your boundaries. There are certain things that boys need psychologically, spiritually, mentally and emotionally, that you as a woman will never be able to impart to them. You will never understand or be able to help your son understand:

  • Masculinity
  • Testosterones
  • The male ego
  • A man’s penis
  • Why men are territorial
  • Why men love a good battle
  • A man’s need to conquer
  • A boy’s rites of passage
Like most females, you will spend an eternity scratching your head trying to understand why men gravitate towards brute competition. Since you will never comprehend these masculine things, you will never be able to properly communicate them to any male. Including your son!

SO STOP TRYING!

Leave the manhood training to the men!

8. Are You Emasculating Your Son?
Some single mothers ruin their sons by emasculating them. To emasculate means: 1. To castrate. 2. To deprive of strength or vigor and to weaken. These single moms accomplish this catastrophic emasculation process by:

  • Impeding the boy’s natural gravitation towards things that boys love to do, (i.e. rough sports and aggressive play)
  • By constantly scolding, condemning, yelling and screaming at him. This commonly used tactic erodes a boy’s self-confidence
  • By being a domineering or overbearing mother. These single moms not only bruise their son’s male ego, but they mutilate his male identity and condition him to be a cowardly passive male
  • Constantly seeing his mother crying or throwing temper tantrums. When a boy sees these seemingly harmless emotional outbursts, he becomes conditioned to respond to the issues and pressures of life in the same manner as his mom.
9. Have You Made Your Son Into a Momma’s Boy?
I constantly meet single mothers who delight in the fact that they are raising momma’s boys. Let me put things into proper perspective by first defining what a momma’s boy is. He has been raised and taken care of by his mother. She has dressed him, cooked his meals, did his laundry, put a roof over his head, babied and spoiled him since birth and still does so… although he is a grown man.

She has come to his rescue, fought his battles, spoken up for him, lied for him, blamed others for his sins and protected him from harm and still does so… although he is a grown man. She has bought his shoes and socks, paid his bills, bought his groceries and got him out of jail and other jams and still does so… although he is a grown man.

In their strange and contorted mother-son relationship, neither of one them is willing cut their now grotesque umbilical cord. By the way their mothers have raised them, these males have been indoctrinated to believe that women exist for the sole purpose of serving and taking care of men. They have no problem with moving in with a female and sitting at home, watching television while their wives, girlfriends and baby’s mothers work two and three jobs to pay the bills.

Their understanding is, “What’s the problem? That’s what my mom did and that’s what women are supposed to do!” When it comes to marriage and relationships, I advise all women to avoid momma’s boys. One way or another, these males are going to cause you heartache. Especially if you attempt to snip their umbilical cord. Single mothers who truly care about their son’s future will not raise their sons to be momma’s boys!

10. Do You Avoid Finding Strong Male Role Models For Your Son?
By having no strong male role models in their lives, boys are prone to gravitate towards:

  • Having a distorted sense of self-worth
  • Feeling irrelevant in our society
  • Rebelling against authority
  • Being passive males
  • Having a deep sense of vulnerability
  • Wondering about their legacy
  • Not respecting the female gender
  • Not understanding, respecting or embracing manhood
  • Not understanding, respecting or embracing marriage
  • Not understanding, respecting or embracing fatherhood
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As they reach adulthood, these harmful traits make men become societal undesirables. As a single mom, you must make seeking out strong godly male role models for your son a top priority. Start with your child’s father. The only reasons you should keep your son away from his biological father is because his dad:

  • Is an alcoholic, drug user or drug dealer
  • Is wanted by the police or other authorities
  • Has harmful mental or other psychological issues
  • Is a thug or is involved in other criminal activity
  • Is an abuser, molester or perpetrator of domestic violence
  • Has threatened physical harm or violence
  • Poses a safety threat to you or child in some other fashion


Barring none of the above, you should not prevent your child’s from interacting with his dad. After the child’s biological father, look at the men in your family, church, after school programs and organizations that are passionate about raising boys. Be clear on this irrefutable fact: your son needs honorable men in his life if he is going to properly transition from boyhood to manhood.



If he has no godly strong male role models, your son will go from boyhood to adulthood, while skipping manhood. Don’t deceive yourself into believing that you can raise your son without men, you cannot.

I leave all single mothers with this final charge.

Malachi 4:6
And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.



Did you take note of what the Lord is doing? He is restoring the hearts of the fathers to their children and the hearts of the children to their fathers. Don’t become a stumbling block against this powerful move of God. If you have bitterness, unforgiveness or hatred in your heart toward the child’s father or toward the entire male gender, let it go!

If you are hiding a dark secret such as: paternity fraud, you gave birth to a child by a married man or you really don’t know who the father is. It may be painful to come clean, but you must. Lying to your family, deceiving you friends and defrauding others only exasperates the matter. In the end, your deception will come back to haunt you. Most likely when you least likely expect it.

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The Wolf in Sheep's clothing: mothers of male children

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Things that make ya go hmmm
What would the world be like, if women that have or desire sons (this is basically a willful choice to birth the future face of rape and murder for women and girls) raised their sons to be good. Not to be "men who work and provide" alone, but whole and healed as individuals. Who then have something to offer women? What if they raised their sons to respect and honor women? Instead of raising them to lord over women or to game on women sexually, financially, emotionally, spiritually etc. What if they raised their sons to not be entitled to the flesh of girls and women? Would we need burkas? Would little girls be raped? Would women be blamed for a v-neck when she is raped?

What if the women, who create males and thus maleness, raised them males to reverence, honor, respect, and worship women as God personified? What if Mothers of Sons didn't drag their future rapists into the women's bathroom, thus teaching him he has a right to exist in women's only space? (and we wonder why trannies want into the bathroom now...)

What if mothers didn't drag their children into misogynist houses of worship? What if mothers instilled to their children that SHE is their God, as the Single Force that cultivated and laboriously birthed them into existence? What if mothers didn't teach their sons that man and god were synonymous? While also teaching them that the Creator of Human Life (the female) is a tempestuous jezebele, inherently sinful and cursed? What if Mothers didn't teach their sons that it is ok to sport fuck through women, so long as its the "low ones?"

What if mothers taught their daughters to be Strong, inner-powered, go getters, self starters, and aware that They alone are the center of their universe?

What if women, mothers, of male children actually had to be accountable for what their sons do!? What if, after failing to turn out a non-rapist/non-abuser/non-misogynist; the mothers of sons were made to be punished for their treason against Wombn and Girls? What if every single time a man beat, raped, murdered a woman his MOTHER is the one who had to account for her choice to birth him? And I mean deeper than the "well where was his mama" commentary on facebook. What if, as a society, we made women account for the product of their wombs and its impact on society? What if women were jailed for birthing rapists and murderers?

What if we actually addressed the real problem?

The problem isnt men.

The problem is the women who have/will/want to give birth to them. And this has always been, our problem. As long as women are the sex-class, the class of humans reserved as sex and for sex, this will continue. Mothers of Sons ensure that we all remain enslaved so that they can "try" to be god. The War between women was waged by mothers of sons, who refused to cast away their degenerate products anymore. Instead they warred us, so that they might raise these beasts and try to become Gods by making him more than an animal. To this day, all women and all girls pay so that Mothers of Sons can try to be god over animals. 

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