Dear deva: help! My man is cheating on me

I think that when women feel “cheated” on!? It’s not about the sex. It’s about the broken fidelity. We have every chance to cheat. Nothing is easier to acquire than a 🍆! It’s not hard to get a man.

Not at any level! Lol

But the feeling of being cheated is about him choosing to dishonor the agreement. And her feeling stupid for believing in it. I want to address why we even need it though? We really don’t. But the desire for fidelity from men stems from the suppression of our own sensual and sexual nature as women! Men and their natures are emboldened and catered to. Women’s nature, to be desired and desirable, is always under assault. Our very nature gets faulted when these devils in 🍆🍆 skin act crazy or untoward.

So how is a woman supposed to feel or react? No really!

We’ve all seen waiting to exhale. We remember BERNIE AND THAT DAMN CAR! We KNOW THAT LEVEL OF RAGE PERSONALLY! We have seen women in our lives go through that 11 years stuck by your side, was your lover and your secretary. Was at the job when NO ONE ELSE WAS THERE HELPING YOU GET ON YOUR FEET!

Because, especially for us, we black women were bred and trained to be MULES! Beasts of burden. NOT FEMININE WOMEN! And that shyt was reinforced in slave narratives from the oppressors and the same culture we hail from, itself. Well let me tell you something, sis!! No woman wants to feel less than desirable. No woman wants to feel unwanted by her man. No woman wants to feel like a box ticked off a list.

No woman wants to front like she is happy when she cries at night wishing she never said yes to his engagement ring. Questioning if she should even go to the altar! No woman wants to be pregnant with their future and he is disgracing her.
No woman wants these things. Not even you “pro hoe” women who hate bw and have single handedly destroyed sister unity with ya uncontrolled hot boxes. You LOVE hurting the next woman. But you don’t want it for yourself. Which is why you live “like a savage.” Instead of like a GOD!

Broken glass. Everywhere. People pissin on the corners. Cuz they just don’t care.

You can be on the edge of glory, or the edge of a break down. Choose glory!

The Oracle Priestess

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