Angry Deva made a lot of important points during that podcast. I would urge you to also take the time to listen to it. Here are some of the “money quotes” that I made notes of:
There’s a “problem with the infrastructure of Black sisterhood.”
“We don’t look out for each other the way that we should.”
She talked about how “we need to be real about where people are.”
Meaning, much of the heavy-duty life-enhancing and life-saving information and strategizing to benefit BW needs to be behind a pay wall to weed out the BW who are simply not anywhere near ready for that information. To weed out the [majority of] penis-pandering BW who will run to violate confidentiality and share our secret strategies with the penis in their life. As she said at 1:18:49 into the podcast (please excuse any mistakes in my transcription of this portion):
“Them sisters can never be in the circle. We gotta sideline them until they come up a little. And tell them, ‘Until you can grow, you can’t have access to this because it’s too much for you. I’m not going to be responsible for giving an infant steak. You need a little Similac, honey.’ And we need to be real about where people are.”