Anti-Black Woman Stereotypes Prevent LISTENING to Valid Concerns

Black women are bitter

Black women are angry

Black women are jealous

Black women lie

Black women steal

Black women cover up

Black women pretend

This is the dominant narrative, the predominant picture and description afforded to black women. Of all women on the planet, our rage, our hate, our disgust, our outrage is the most feared, policed, dismissed, of all women on the planet. When we are OUTRAGED, you can bet your bottom dollar there will be someone out there defining it. Your outrage, enrage, anger, pain, lived-experiences themselves are already named, judged, dismissed and ignored. Both by society at large:

But especially by other black women!

It is nearly impossible to approach black women about things that upset you. Double it if what you find to be troublesome, is something SHE is engaged in as a lifestyle. She will defend, to the death, her right to continue on as she is. She will, frankly, name the ways that her choices have manifested ill in her life. She will also, viciously, defend her right to carry on at the expense of women and girls.

One thing I have experienced in the last year is this concept of the "ma-sun" being preached by black women. I witnessed a comment a few months back on a video featuring Busta Rhymes, where he went to africa, hugged a black woman and kissed her, he shed a tear and said its good to be home. He shared some pretty heartfelt, deep seeming, expressions. The kinds of things that black women with sons crave to hear, or even black women who have been abused or maligned by black men. Suddenly, the women were shouting, praising the Great Mother and calling him a "Ma-Sun returned home."

No one should be shocked to learn it disgusted me, and that I spoke on it. I found those women to be foolish, this man can make millions of dollars selling black women's image to the world for his profit, kiss one black womans face and suddenly he is redeemed? This is all it takes for the horrors that men have subjected women to, to be absolved? A black man need merely be videotaped speaking 6 kind words about one black woman to absolve his lifetime of disrespect, for his profiting from rap(e) culture, for sport-fuckin-thru-women, female degradation for male empowerment/culture/rap and more. 

When I pointed out that he had done NOTHING redemption worthy, or absolution worthy, much less had he atoned for shyt he has done.... the attack was on me. I was the evil, bitter, black man hater who simply needed to get some "healing." This seemingly is the full depth of black women's analytic ability. Much less an ability to engage in a cogent discourse about our own Divine Right to Name and set precedents.  Even we black women have learned to tune one another out, to dismiss and reject, as valid, the expression or experience of our sisteren. Oh we TALK a good game about "sisterhood" but we certainly don't often back it up. 

All women are psychic.

All women are healers.

But not all women are DOING the work! Often times, those with the greatest passion, also are warring great battles. We see this, we judge it (jealousy, bitterness, anger, immaturity, just to name a few) and package it away. In our lives, in the lives of one another, we have to be so careful! Everyone you see is fighting a great battle. Even you, yourself, are fighting a great battle; we wake up daily at war with forces/people/situations/doubts/fears/health-issues.

This makes it very difficult to reach across that isle. One thing I make very clear, during my speaking engagements, on the Angry Deva's Radio show, and in my Private Work with sisters, is:

Our rage is our power. This is untapped power, in our lives. Many black women are depressed and in poor health, simply because they have endured for too long, in silence. We are so tailored, so in need of being contained and appearing to be "fine" that we are busting at the seams.

The squeaky wheel gets the most oil.

In my life? It was fear of what other people, other black women, might say about me. This fear of the judgment of others impedes our growth. Learning to embrace our darkness? Owning all those spaces that others have judged in you?

This is the key to healing and the reason i began the Priestess of In-Formation 1 on 1 Mentoring sessions. Womens expression are policed, and then women are judged by the words they say or dont say. In a global culture of religious supremacy, no one is practicing what they preach. Why are women being judged or condemned here in America, if there is No Condemnation Or Jusgment of others permitted in the "christian faith" that allegedly "gave birth" to this nation?

Why must women "behave" well for the faux "promised land" of a cease fire of male sexual terrorism? Why must women "love men" when men, as a cohort, express global hatred for women and girls? In my Priestess of In-Formation Mentoring Sessions, we discuss these things. As well we explore:

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* healing the rage of trauma

* checking the negative committee

* how to tap into your Anger as Power vs Poison

* How to mine for Peals

* Divine Timing lessons

And more.

The reason i do this? Is because women are still, for all our alleged freedoms of speech and movement, under attack! Our expressions are attacked, our right to express ourselves, the articulation of our thoughts and more. I have recently been subject to heinous attacks by mothers of sons. Why?

For the simple act of admitting that there is no value in birthing men. And that they are kidding themselves to believe that rebirthing man is a worth while prospect! I was informed i shouldn't talk about it! Because i am not a mother. See how so we cease being cows in patriarchy, when no one can wake us up!? What the hell tells them that they can speak on gay marriage and a litany of other topics they themselves have absolutely no worldview on by realm of "personal experience." I forgot, they have dickism to back up their, inherently patriarchal, need to pontificate regurgitated jizzm.

Do you really think, for one second, that these "sons" are your golden ticket? Oh honey, that's funny! For thousands of centuries they have been the bane of our existence. How quickly we forget logic and wisdom for the all too fe-male emotional, illogic and screaming fits that are preferred by privileged women when being challenged by women of less (or no) privilege over them. Hell i was even informed; by the mothers of sons, that they will win this war they waged against womanhood. And they are right, because so long as women birth men, unchecked, girls will be raped. And as long as girls and women are raped, mothers of sons win! I wish i were making this up... But yes on the open air i was told by mothers of sons that they would win the war against us and that their sons would fuck us all up! This, (male sexual terrorism) unfortunately, is what they mean.

Their ultimate goal is to be god through their son. Due to an ill fated believe that they are nothing without him. And this ill fated belief, this antiquated mythos, has permeated our culture. So now these men feel entitled to our girls, and their mothers are always right there, explaining their right to do so. Their sons are god and in control of all things. Including the cattle excuse me, the women.

Something we all need to be aware of:

The bearer of the Womb is the Sun of mama or the Ma-Sun.