Dark Marriage: Hieros Gamos for the Black Woman

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There is so much black women do not know about mating and relationships. Black women are still choosing men based on love and emotion and not based on practical or logical reasons. As such, most never get married or their marriages end in divorce. Black women are terrible at mate selection. This ugly truth is the very reason we have 73% of all black children borne out of wedlock with no protection. The government is about to make it impossible for such women. And I aim to help women know how to avoid this new trap.

The #1 indicator of poverty is motherhood. Globally. There is a reason for this fact.. Marriage, like all social and goverental institutions of patriarchy, has some dark origins and has shifted in perception over time. Used to be only slaved women were married. Slave marriage was more about bondage and property. Then only noble women could be married. (Noble marriage was more about legally binding wealthy women as property to poor men. Remember it is marriage and matri-money. Or it was.... More on this in the class.) Now any broad who can find a man to drag before a priest or magistrate can get married.

When I first came on the scene, this was what I taught on and talked about. I stopped because bitterly single black women kept on with the inane rhetoric. We want to hear from slave women how marriage works. Women who pretend and feed our love of the fantasy. We want the Disney version. We buy into it so easily, then miserably pretend to keep up appearances. Women who are in lasting unions tell a different story, we chose the man for a reason and not a season. Black women fear a sovereign married woman who isn't beholden to her man. It simply does not compute that a woman is her own independent person and the marriage, while loving and supportive, is not her identity or her damn life. Lol I actually laugh at and pity women who live the other way around. They have no life in their eyes, they are drained and they lie. They lie their ass off about how wonderful that draining existence is.

I ain't buying it. I ain't sellin it.

One of the things I consistently heard back in The day, and still do, is how I do not act like a married woman. I had a lesbian say to me that, most married women live with their husbands penis on the tongue. She can't talk without referencing her man some way or another. And she believes she isn't Tryina brag, but she is. I agree with her, as I have observed this of my hetero sisters too. YALL just cannot get with any woman who doesn't live on her knees giving that verbal blow job to men, just for him being a man. You were taught wrong or nothing, so I do not fault you. I fault your mothers not raising Sovereign Gods in you, or your genetics for making you that way.

We GODIS know the intimacy and true power of a blow job. It is a very personal act of Power, to play a sweet song upon his saxophone. That is Phallus Worship, and it is energy as well! You are receiving all his power into your oral/throat chakra! Let's be real about this shyt! This is an act of POWER! And it is done with and on purpose my dears. Verbal blow jobs are the same. You cannot both desire sovereign women as sisters and colleagues while talking against pandering and you publically act like a pandering "slut" without some opposition. That verbal blow job is pandering it's very much so gonna piss women off and then you will complain about "jealousy." But they cannot shoot what they cannot see. Ijs wisdom speaks, do you listen?

Energy is energy. And people are people whether we like it or not. The Dark doesn't care about your emotions, it deals with what is or is not.

I never wanted to trade on my borrowed male privilege. I never had to do it to bolster the importance of my work or message unlike the rest of these women. My voice is power-filled on its own. My voice is anointed and always has been. Women whose voices aren't powerful need men to empower their words. Since men represent power in this system that power-less women created. This is how it has always been under their rule, this is why women created The Lord.

I saw so many BWE pages talking marriage. One of my fave blogs from back in the day was Halimas "date a white guy" blog. I loved it because I was discussing marrying men who believed in family, investment, financial solvency and a legacy to pass down, and she kept telling us black men ain't it. That was a DARK eye opener. And I intend to discuss this in class.

I consistently ran/run into black women with "good" black men. Yeah you have a good man when you shackin with your family, when you struggle on how to grind, when you HAVE to work so you and Ya children eat hs quite the catch. SARCASM. You just have a nigga who doesn't beat you yet, but soon emotionally and financially the whippings will begin. You mothers of children choose men for you. Based on how he makes you feel. Foolish. You choose for your children. The emotional and financial whippings will soon come. Smh You can't see it now though, because he is a 25% improvement on yo ex. This is what men are and do and all woman think they have a good one, till the representative departs and the real man is left behind. Then, after all your "vetting" after all your careful picking, what the hell do you do? We will discuss this in class.

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What married woman is working outside the home on something that isn't her own independent business? See Yall got the game messed up and all this DARK ISH will be discussed in class. Most will cover up and only share the Good. I intend to tell you the real and discuss character and spirits. Vs emotions and he smell so good. Black women are delusional and lack discipline. Which is why I am not accepting just anyone for this class. We are going to discuss what Marriage and Wifery really is from a spiritual perspective. For those who want to thrive based on what is real not fake ass morality.

Dark Marriage, Hieros Gamos in true. Not what the patriarchy will let you find on google. Lol Ignorance abounds and is easy to access. And I will share with you exactly why most marriages end in divorce.

Sisters on my mailing list check your emails. I am teaching this class on Dark Marriage and how to remain Sovereign in marriage. Again... This is a by invitation only class. I am not accepting just anyone and it has a quota.

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