Healing Raped Wombn: #ISupportJada

Healing Raped Wombn

Is the healing initiative began by Angry Devas to help Wombn be RESTORED after experiencing male sexual terrorism. Please click the above link for help and more details.

I really wish we NEVER AGAIN have to hear a non black woman say: it is not about race. The narrative (if truly one of supportive affirmation) should have began "as a fellow survivor of rape this is something all women deserve freedom from" but she doesnt. They rarely ever do.

Yes. All women, by virtue of being female, are dangerously subject to rape aka male sexuality. As long as we women sexually service males, we are basically endorsing their sexual entitlement and this their rape. Hear me now, before your emotions get it twisted.

Male sexuality is rape lust based, male approaches to mating and relating and dating are like unto the rapist. To Quote a Shaman:

Male = rape in patriarchy and patriarchal men. It is the definition of manhood, to take what you want, go after what you like, dominate what is "weaker" than you, in charge, in control, dominant.

These things define masculinity in patriarchy. Male approaches to sexuality are rape based primarily. No seeking of consent prior to contact is the normal way of men. Typically!? A man has an urge, and he begins kissing and touching a woman. He doesnt use his words, he uses his body to initiate the transaction. And she is supposed to use her words, will, and energy to navigate or negate that transaction. Before her mind is made up? His is made up for her. And his desire is more important than her right to choose to engage it or not. This is the essence, the core of rape and rape culture. That mens pleasure, urges and desires are "natural" thus "normal" and women just unclear or overreacting. Not many men are willing to take a critical look at how they engage womens bodies, with entitlement and seeking to satiate their own lusts. She is a mere tool, an instrument available for his pleasure and exploration. She is the subject and object.

And these things contribute to the debase culture of rapism and male domination of children and women sexually. Has anyone considered, at all, that heterosexual male sexuality itself lends to this problem?

Men believe that the dogged pursuit of a woman until she gives in is loving or showing interest in her. this type of intrusion is the framework of rape. where a man circumvent's a womans choice power and right to choice. Moreover, he dismisses her right to name and is abusively emotional and entitled to her considerations of his feelings/wants and "needs."

there is little to no difference between the two (male sexual terrorism and male sexuality as a "stand alone") save the outcome, and the "assumed consent" of the Wombn involved in the transaction. it is time to take a deeper look at heterosexual male sexuality and the rape lust that is intricately intertwined there. taking a woman, submission of female will to male authority or desire, all of that. ~The Oracle Shaman

However, whenever something happens to white girls? No one says its all women. Because white girls represent "womanhood" the social class and gendered construct. When we talk about black girls? The reason white women say "its all women" is a knee jerk reactionism inherent in being used to embodying the default representation of femaleness and they reframe those FEMALE experiences as "all women" to purposely erase the intersections of oppression that happen only to black "women." Remember, the blacks are male the women are white. Where does that leave us? When... Even a black womans RAPE has to be about "all women" aka "whiter women than her." They further show you their ass by saying "look at the cases where white women got no justice! See its all women and men are our collective enemy."

And i take issue with this.

When black women are raped? We have no justice. Period. White women get convictions at higher rates than we do. But the POINT is that black girls have no protection. And black girls/womens bodies arent valued as feminine. We arent seen as feminine and thus worthy of protection.

Its horrible! Black woman, black mother, these men and boys are all to be regarded as violent potential rapists. At this moment? I simply cannot see any other way to protect our girls from being treated as nothing more than rape fodder.

It is my life's work to help women HEAL from rape, from Male Sexual terrorism. . Countless black women have been raped or molested. Countless! And no one helps them. They are called fast, hot-in-the-ass, she wanted it, she knew what she was doing, she shouldn't have worn that.

Its a hot mess! And black girls deserve to be honored. It is very real that BLACK girls in specific are targeted as rape fodder by black men and boys. And no matter how many white women come to cry about "its not about race" the fact still remains that black men/boys prey on black females regardless of age.

We black women have no protectors. Outside of the white supremacist military and police force, we have no damn protection. Black men and boys are the ones victimizing black women and girls. At alarming rates. With absolutely no repercussions!!!! I am tired of it. If you have a daughter? All black males need to be regarded as potential/future rapists. It sucks To even have to consider this, but what else do we have to STOP the apparent sport that men and boys have made of rape? Other than separatism from males, i see no end. As long as men and boys have access to women and girls this will continue.

I support Jada. And All raped women. In my life, with my work as a Womb Trauma Healer, as a Rape Trauma Healer, and as a Black Wombn.

the very definition of sex itself being male penetration of women in heteronormative relating is another key in rape. While most rapists refuse to see their behavior that way, the CONSTANT rebuttal is its normal or the woman is taking something out of context or she is over reacting to a "normal occurrence with men." it is the reason women awaken to men raping them... the reason men pursue and pursue regardless of what the woman told him the first time.

it is the basis of almost all male decision making. the idea of the present male approach to dating, relating and mating as NORMAL and women as overreacting, sensitive, damaged, bitter, angry etc. rape is a male problem. it is rooted in male culture and psychology and will be fixed when we begin to consider that the male culture/relationship to his penis as power, and more is what enables rape to occur and be made normal. Which renders male approaches to relating and dating and mating to be inherently rape lust based. with so much disrespect for Female Sexual and BODILY autonomy, why are we shocked that men, in such high numbers and with such great denial and virtually NO PUNISHMENT AT ALL globally, rape women and consider it LOVE or FUN or normal? I have talked to countless women whose husbands have "sleep raped" them, women whose bellies are swollen with child due to the "sleep rape" of "loving husbands" who tell her "but you were moist and you moaned. I thought you were enjoying it." In response to the womans destroyed trust and very real rape trauma.

Part of rape culture is the NORMALIZATION of rape and the romanticism of it as well. To where, culturally and as a popular construct, rape is only real when a man jumps out the bushes and attacks a woman. and a REAL rape victim falls to pieces and begs god to forgive the man and forgives him herself.

The Sacral Nerve/Pelvic Nerve is the S3. As you can easily see, the S3 impacts the functionality of every single vital and even non vital organ in a Wombn's body. It is extremely important that we know this and that we act accordingly.

they have made a boogey man out of rape in our LEGISLATION and cultural attitude to who is and is NOT worthy of empathy as a victim... mean while on the big screen these men are depicted as loving women and not being able to help themselves for being overcome with love. and the rape is ALWAYS depicted as a relationship. this is the way in which heterosexual men are ENCOURAGED and TRAINED to engage women. from the first booty grab, to the girl you lie to to get her to have sex with you (i love you, if you love me u wil and etc) to the girl you get drunk so she will say yes, to not paying attention to womens body language unless it is affirming your desires..... men are ENCOURAGED and TRAINED to engage women, for the most part, as a rapist.

I want to take it a step further and say that heterosexual male rape lust based sexuality also is a basis of their homophobia. if it is NORMAL that men pursue someone until they get what they want, and it is depicted as loving because men are just so strong and dominant and aggressive and women are passive and weaker and submissive...

what does this do the the narrative and the EMOTIONAL reaction of men? I, and other free thinking women, have long posited that homophobia is an outgrowth of misogyny and male supremacy. Male enforced female inferiority is dependent on PATRIARCHS and patriarchs fuck women. the very real possibility that the "normal" male rape lust based sexual approaches to mating can be turned around on them = homophobia. there is a meme that homophobia is the male fear that gay men will do to them what they do to women. i think this is part of it.

and see... men are aware of this element. they Know of the rape lust; they just aren't willing to call it what it is when in application to THEIR actions and behaviors towards women and girls. But they plenty express this truth in their homophobic fears of other men coming after them. They arent just labeling gay men as "sick" they are understanding that a man who wants what he wants will stop at nothing to get it. And they do not want the tables turned on them. They fear that gay men will do to them what they have done for thousands of years to women and girls.

The only beings who need to penetrate the body of another for pleasure is men. Over 60% of women do not enjoy or experience orgasm from male sex. What is more rape than that? If it is about her pleasure, and over 60% of women DO NOT ORGASM from PIV male sexuality, what again is RAPE?

If SEX is consensual MUTUAL enjoyment and only ONE PARTY has consented and enjoyed, what is it?

Why is it so hard to say it is rape? Are we afraid? Is the male ego that precious that he cannot grapple with harsh truth and redirect his actions? Or has patriarchy emboldened men to keep on taking, trickin = raping and never ever stop to consider the impact of what you are doing.

The present male attitude to the whopping 60% of women they cannot make orgasm with their penile friction based sexuality... Is that SHE is broken and just cannot come.

And since more than 60% of womens first sexual experience was rape/molestation/pedophillic and male sex is the EXACT SAME as male rape; while more than 60% also cannot come from male sex...

What are women to do?

Do men have any idea what it costs women to keep loving them when their rape and their sex are the exact same? Like all the bitter victim accusations i just saw in another thread on this topic... If a woman is supposed to heal and the male sex is the same as the male rape how does this help her triggered memory responses? If men really love women why not think about the impact of what the penetration has on womens psyche. Instead of dismissing education as "man hating."

And there are other ways to PLEASE WOMEN that do not include the phallus. But men are selfish and entitled sexually. So that wont fly. If he cant have fun, no body gonna come.

Vagina: a New Biography by Naomi Wolf

I have been re-reading this book by Naomi Wolf "Vagina: A New Biography" it is HEALING and informative.

In patriarchy, the reason Rape and Sexual Assault is SANCTIONED against women? men know that they can destroy the female spirit and mind via her body. rape, then, is the WILLFUL disenfranchisement of the Female Spirit and Body. It is the willful fragmentation of her Spiritual, Sexual, Emotional vibrations and being states. It is the willful vehement HATRED inherent in a certain sect of males in this world, of the female and feminine.

It is insidious, outrageous and there is absolutely NO PLACE in this world for rapists. I stand with women everywhere and say they simply do NOT deserve to breathe our air or share our space. they certainly do not deserve the right to taunt us, blame us or SHAME US for their sexual depravity and for the use of the phallus as a weapon of massive destruction.

Rape of the feminine happens MORE than just sexually. Most women know their rapist and TRUST him to be a brother or a friend. More often than is reported women are raped by men they had already made a conscious consensual choice to engage with sexually. The man just decides he has more right to her Vagina than she does to tell him no.

I stand against all rapists. I find them despicable and a scourge. most of the men who rape or have raped don't even view their sexual assault as such. they envision rape as the boogie man who jumps out of the bushes and attacks a woman. not a man who ignores a woman's "no penetration" request, not a man who flips his wife in her sleep and penetrates her body without her consent, not the man who decides to have sex with a drunken girl, not the man who pressures women into sex, not the man who bullies (via disparaging comments, psychological mind games and more) a woman into sexual expression with him.

Sex is sacred. it is SPECIAL. this should be a time and space where connection is fluid, safe, exploratory and BLISS FILLED. And EVERY WOMAN deserves this. Every male bodied human absolutely owes this debt to the Creator of Humanity: the Feminine.

It has to go beyond one sentence outrage on fb. Or else we are part of the problem. And aiding it ti continue. These men and boys arent just sick. They are raised and encouraged to behave this way. And there are billions of these men/boys like them on this planet. They out number all women and all non rapist males.

Many women and girls are raped in America because she TRUSTED this man to not be a rapist animal. Most women? They or their children are raped because they TRUSTED THE HUMANITY of a man. Because they didnt judge him as an animal for having a penis. Because they didnt dismiss him as a threat for being a male with a penis.

Its always said that they are stupid or that the women offered their babies up. No. Most often men manipulate their way in. Rapists are sociopaths. They are master manipulators and seek out empathic people to subject to object status for their own sexual gratification. They are cunning and smart, at all ages!

Stop woman shaming. Start male rapist shaming.