Keep your Curse: When the Village fights back against a Culture of Dysfunction

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‪#‎LateNiteChat‬

I am successful in life because I learned by age 14 that anyone who failed where i endeavored to succeed was disqualified from advising me. The first time I established this as a boundary was in church. Some woman who was a two time baby mama, was attempting to preach abstinence to we young women.

This woman got pregnant, while being a leader in our church, and went away for a few weeks just to return with a baby and no explanation. She was sat down for a few weeks, YALL who were raised in church remember how the Mothers would sit a Heffa down and make her ass atone for her foolishness.

Well after her atonement, she decided it was time to come back n teach we youth.

I told her she was out of order seeing as she had two bastard out of wedlock children and was also in a leadership position over we youth. The broad got mouthy with me and tried some "there but for the grace of god It could be you" speech. The grace of God had nothing to do with you spreading your legs to some man who isn't your husband and getting pregnant by him and then bringing his bastards into this world. I pushed back and took it to the elder Mothers. This is back when the mothers of the church were Elders. Not just old people in fine hats....

She was indeed promptly sat down and not allowed to engage we youth anymore. How dare SHE fail at life and then think she was qualified to tell us what to do. Far too many women do this. They think they give good advice and that their advice is valid because they failed in the area they are advising you in. Smh all my life I have seen women act out of order this way. You have no business, but you think you can advise me on business. You live in the projects, but you are going to tell me about saving. The father of your bastard doesn't care if it is alive or dead, but you are going to tell me about the value of motherhood... And how wonderful it is.

Have a seat. Have a stadium of seats.

Chile, a bum on the streets cannot give me financial tips or stock tips. No cum filled male can advise me on how to be a woman, I ain't a STEVE harveyite like too many lost women who value failure loser males opinions. And no baby mama, no bastard child maker, can tell me shyt about anything other than how to be a baby mama with bastard illegitimate children running around creating a bad name for the entire race.

Too many of our "sisters" just want someone who makes them feel good about the failure decisions they have made with degenerate and DBR maledom. When the men say women need to choose better they balk and act as if the choice to not fuck Bum males is so hard. When women say that women need to choose better we are being judgmental and negative. No one wants to do the hard work and ask the hard questions for true restoration. And you better believe, we who are childfree are judged by the breeder class for not making the same foolish choices they have.

This is the greatest draw on black sisterhood. We have mothers of black males not wanting to admit their collusion with patriarchy In Birthing males. These same mothers then create pages that bytch all day about the very males they gave birth to. You have single mothers who do not want to admit that their choices resulted in raising their children in extreme poverty (what we called working class is now the working poor. As anyone who doesn't have $500,000 per child is not really providing for them.) and we have many impressionable young women. Women who the breeders claim they want to help, yet we who are not breeders know this is a lie by the pressure they attempt to place us under for not making their foolish choices. I can laugh I. The face of a breeder woman, but when I was a girl I felt pressure to heed their failure advice.

Many women SAY they want sisterhood. I say keep your curse. You do not need sisters. You need a wake up call and to deal with the shyt life YOU created dealing with the bums who pumped you full of babies.

This page is a safe haven for women who do not like or care for children and who do not want anything to do with them or the needy weak women who create them in insane circumstances. We are always lambasted or called crazy for seein what you choose to ignore.
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And I do not care what ignorant deductions women come to about it.